tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5588902202851388479.post5433297672909681748..comments2023-05-26T20:57:42.002+05:30Comments on Random Access Memories.: Root causes of marriage/relationship failuresVarunhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11685269425245277890noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5588902202851388479.post-66244354993922708342012-08-28T10:22:46.455+05:302012-08-28T10:22:46.455+05:30Dear Danielle
Read the first paragraph of the pos...Dear Danielle<br /><br />Read the first paragraph of the post and you will understand it. These are not my thoughts. I just mentioned them.Varunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685269425245277890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5588902202851388479.post-51003520610511883432012-08-25T04:03:01.843+05:302012-08-25T04:03:01.843+05:30mYou're kidding ... right? At least you have ...mYou're kidding ... right? At least you have the decency to apply such noxious opinion to both sexes. Let's assume, just for a second, that there really is something wrong with flirtatious behaviour from either sex. If one abides by your code of decency, what do you suppose the advantage will be? A guarantee of a better marriage, perhaps?<br /><br />And .. since the article focuses on the behaviour of women, let's question the supposed advantage to a woman who pays more attention to her boyfriend or husband instead of concentrating on her career. The whole point of gaining economic independence was to give women the choice to take care of herself instead of relying on husbands to take care of them, men who more often than not were abusive. They subjected women to control and conditions and got away with it because, in that era, women were completely dependent on husbands. Don't kid yourself. Human nature is no different now than it ever was. If we didn't have the same economic advantage (almost) and independence as men, male-dominated privilege and domestic control would never have changed.<br /><br />Your blog post has the makings of a good argument to stay single.Daniellenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5588902202851388479.post-17145832934036635882010-07-14T18:47:49.822+05:302010-07-14T18:47:49.822+05:30@Arshi: I agree with u....but if your surroundings...@Arshi: I agree with u....but if your surroundings are like that, there should be a balance between maintaining decency and giving space to partner.<br /><br />@Anjuli: Yes, it's against women but true to some extent, but same applies to men as well...Varunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685269425245277890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5588902202851388479.post-27370741445039967062010-07-14T10:46:13.820+05:302010-07-14T10:46:13.820+05:30arrey everything is written against women!!!arrey everything is written against women!!!Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14848684021931332096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5588902202851388479.post-36114945540825342072010-07-13T15:12:31.269+05:302010-07-13T15:12:31.269+05:30Point raised here is valid.. extreme of anything i...Point raised here is valid.. extreme of anything is bad.. it can be in any case male or female partner but any healthy relationship does give space to both the partners.Arshi Aggarwalhttp://arshiaggarwal.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com