The End is Same

It's very interesting to see that all religions (Hindu, Muslim and Christian) have the same end yet so differences in reality.

Hindu - Swarg or Nark
Muslim - Jannat or Jahannum
Christian - Heaven or Hell

"Without a struggle, there can be no progress"

Life is full of uncertainties but what is it that keeps you going. No matter how tough things are around but it is certainly a confidence, self belief and positive attitude that keeps us moving forward. I realized planning things in advance help us deciding our present course of action. Always work towards realizing your future goals and these small present issues and problems will look small when you see your future goals.

When you see people around, you will find each one has their own problems to tackle. You can see it from their faces. No matter how much they hide but when you get to know that person, you can easily see their problems. But we all have been given a power of resistance i.e. to survive the tough situations. Lets take a example, if you were told a joke first time, you will probably laugh at it. The second time, you will laugh less but after repeatedly hearing the same joke, there will be a time when you will not laugh at all. Similarly, we should not cry again and again by thinking of difficult times. The things which have happened are past now. No need to be sad thinking about it. “Tears are for after; they just waste time before." Adversity is a fact of life. It can’t be controlled. What we can control is how we react to it. The true test of a person's character is how they stand during test of adversity.

Its a faith that we have upon us that keeps us going. Difficult times will remain with us throughout our life. Its just the small small happy moments that make our days and life.

From a Boy to Man

When does time come when people started treating you as a man and not as a boy anymore. Does age matter? Completing 30 years makes you man? or after marriage? Since, I will be completing my 30 years in a month and few days, this question started knocking my mind. Most of us will say that age doesn't matter. You become man when you start handling greater responsibilities, take decisions, etc. I agree to that.

It is that time of your life when you realize that you are alone and you have to deal with the problems yourself. Family is there, but its you who need to take risks and trust your instincts.

We always want to remain as a boy but time will automatically shifts our personality from a boy to a man not because of age but with our traits. You don't realize when you start behaving like a man. So I guess the time has come for me to take few important decisions and handle greater responsibilities. Its only a coincidence that I am completing 30 years at the same time. Whatever I have learned till now, its time to implement that in my life. Though the learning is endless but the basic concepts of life has been learned.

Priorities of Life

I have been deciding my priorities in life but when I tried to pen down these, I couldn't decide which one comes first and second. There are so many things right now which I need to fulfill, which I desire, which I was long waiting for. And now when I have resources for them, I don't know which one to complete first. Its true that all of these activities are related to money. I cannot complete all of them at one go due to limited money but certainly afford some of them. The real confusion is which one to choose first.

I am sure this must be happening to many people to manage their life, decide priorities, etc and I am sure they must be finding it tough, isn't it? I know about me, I am finding it tough. There are many things/commitments in life which a person gives lot of thought before pursuing any of them. It requires lot of careful planning, time investment. I am going through the similar phase. But talking in general, I am listing down few of the activities (do you call these activities?) which a person always gets confused before attempting them.

Higher Studies or Job
Marriage or Career
Plan a Baby or Give some more time
Foreign Trip or save more money
Rented house or buy a home
Job change or not
Save or Invest

These above are some of the most important and difficult decisions one has to made in his/her life.

Change your Life, Change your Thoughts

We don't like changes around us but one must change within. My current phase of mind certainly requires some immediate changes. Life does not have any motivation. I used to like challenges but time is such that I refuse to start. I need to pull up my socks and have to look out for new developments. The most important thing is to change my thinking. It happens when you start feeling comfortable. And I really don't like that part. I always want to be submerged into something new. I feel like walking out and stand in the rain.

I wish I could change myself like I change clothes everyday. I find now that my best days are when I am making the internal and external changes to make my life better...But when I'm stuck in habitual patterns, doing the same thing day in an day out, I find it difficult to listen to my heart...I've always liked changes, despite the fact that it's so difficult to deal with them sometimes. When I fall into a rut I feel the need for a change of scenery. On one hand, this is immature, because no matter where one goes, his problems come along. So some people could say I just run away from my problems, but I never really have any big problems. Just a boredom with monotony. I love adventure, I love new scenery and new ideas. I like meeting new people and learning new ways of living. I like sharing concepts and thoughts with friends and strangers.

If the change is happening from bad to worse, even then I like it. It will occupy my mind and help me to think differently. It will always keep me on my toes. Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.

Dilemma

Its just been those days where I cannot concentrate at one place. There are lot of thoughts running in my mind and I don't know which path to choose. Life sometimes become so complicated that you don't know what is right for you. People around me moving on but my life came to an standstill. Its like a one big full stop which is not letting me to move.

An Inrospection

I am the one who observes a lot about things happening around me. I observe people including myself. This post is a introspection of me that I recently found in my behavior. Life is going easy and I take it as it comes. But this easy attitude is making me lazy and feel that I am drifting towards the path which I should not be going. I am the guy who always want to be into things. I don't like sitting idle doing nothing. But I have become so lazy that even if I want to do something, my mind and body doesn't allow me to do it. I want to take care of each and every member of my family but I am so busy with myself that I am not able to give enough time to them. I try to avoid work and transfer it to next day and that next day never comes.

I don't know how to improve myself. I feel guilty of not doing well. I expect a lot from me and want to fly in life. I always want to see my family happy and somehow feel that I am not doing enough to them. I have so many pending tasks to do. I spend 15 hours of my day in front of the computer screen either in office or at home. I know I have things to do but lying on bed and surfing net is more important to me.

I want to change myself and I don't know how to start.

Nothing new in life

Its been long time since I last posted on the blog, but still I don't have anything to share. There are times when life becomes still, nowhere to go. It just keeps you so busy, that you don't have time to do anything new. So I am waiting for something new to happen in life.

Life at Work

Life at work can be a battle field and you need to be equipped not just with skills, but also a spinal cord made of steel. There's a lot of stress out there and in these times of recession, you have to be twice as good to keep your head afloat.

Just a random thought.

my life's day

Well I am writing today to express my frustration that I am going through from this hectic life....no time for recreation, traveling, etc. I sometimes feels that what kind of life I am living...giving no time to anybody even my family...

My day starts very early in the morning...6 AM to be exact...then i get ready to welcome new day with excitement...but till the time i get ready, i feel that this is another usual day which will pass and my life's one day will be deducted today...

After getting ready I go to my pick up point from where i board my cab...i see people around...daily faces...saying good morning, hello, hi....then i board a cab for office around 8 and see people going to offices with their shabby/dull looks...no one seems to be interested in looking at the beautiful sunrise...just honking from their cars, bikes racing to reach office....On my way I think about the tasks that I have to perform in office....thinking about my future, career...I think almost everything in that 45 minutes journey....

Then I reach office at around 8:45....check my mails...and start off with the work...the time passes by...the most difficult 9 hours of daily life.....solving issues regarding work...well life is tough out there....

The happiest moment of day comes when I see clock at 5:30....ahh...the day ends...and now I see cheerful faces around me....tough times never last.....getting out of building is very exciting....watching beautiful faces....u know bird watching...and going back home....I see my cab mates faces....all they want is seat to sleep.....they cant miss single second to sleep in the cab....The traffic is slow...so they get chance to sleep as much as they can....its a bit bumpy ride but I enjoy every minute of it....

Now finally comes the home....mummy bhook lagi hai....the first sentence that comes out from my mouth after reaching home....I change clothes and in between turning on my laptop....I never miss a second to turn on my laptop....while i change i put password and again ready to sit in front of the computer.....downloading stuff...checking mails, orkutting, listening songs....this is what i dont like about my life....coming home and again sitting with laptop....I know its bad thing but i am addicted now...cant help....coming online is like doping...cant resist....and then having dinner coming online again and finally go to sleep......tomorrow there will be a another day like this....life goes on...